Dr. John Delony speaks to millions of listeners on his popular podcast about mental health, family and relationships. As a therapist, he’s used to offering advice to struggling fathers, but we asked him about the biggest lessons he’s learned as a dad.

Dr. John Delony, a therapist and popular mental health podcaster, shares his personal experiences and lessons learned as a father. He highlights the unexpected anxieties of caring for a newborn, the realization that each child is unique, and the importance of being a steady, likable presence for his children rather than focusing solely on giving advice or setting rules.

Delony also expresses that meaningful gestures from his family, such as heartfelt letters expressing appreciation, would be the most valuable gifts. His reflections underscore the evolving nature of fatherhood and the significance of emotional connection within the family.

Therapist on what he's learned as a father

What have I learned about fatherhood? When babies are breathing, sometimes it sounds like choking. Nobody told me that, but I just can't go to sleep. Dr. John Deloney, a popular mental health podcaster, spends a lot of time talking to dads. The reality is your body's recognizing you've got a ton of new responsibility now, man. You've got a baby girl. And you've never been married to a mom before. Let's intentionally get out of that loop and exhale and say the words, My baby's going to be great. No two kid is the same. When my son came along, I thought I'd figured it out, and I thought I was pretty amazing at this. And my daughter came, and she's a radically different person. And I think the other thing I've learned about fatherhood is working on me being likable, being somebody that was a safe, steady presence that my kids could anchor into instead of somebody who was always lecturing, telling them what to do next, and giving them all these regulations is a much better use of my time. Here's what would be the greatest Father's Day gift of all time. If my wife wrote me a letter and read it to me as to why it's good that I'm the father of her kids and it would be amazing if my kids wrote me a letter telling me why they like having me as a dad.

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Russia hits Kyiv with largest drone attack after Trump-Putin call

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More than 80 people killed in Gaza in one day

Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy said Kyiv will do "anything" to advance EU accession talks. Zelenskyy spoke alongside Danish Prime Minister Mette Frederiksen, President of the European Council António Costa and President of the European Commission Ursula von der Leyen.

Ukraine will do 'anything' to advance EU accession talks: Zelenskyy

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Indonesia suspends search for 30 missing after ferry sinks near Bali

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First group of detainees arrive at "Alligator Alcatraz," Florida says

U.S. President Donald Trump said Thursday (July 3) that he spoke with Russian President Vladimir Putin and that he plans to hold a call with Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy. CBS News White House reporter Willie James Inman has more.

Trump speaks with Putin, plans call with Zelenskyy

CNN’s Priscilla Alvarez reports on a lawsuit from lawyers for Kilmar Abrego Garcia alleging he suffered “torture and mistreatment” after he was wrongfully deported and held in El Salvador’s notorious mega prison.

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Kilmar Abrego Garcia claims he was tortured in El Salvadoran prison

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U.S. pauses military aid to Ukraine over depleted weapons stockpile

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CBS News political contributor Caroline Polisi joins "CBS Mornings" to break down the jury's verdict in Sean "Diddy" Combs' federal trial and the judge's decision to deny bail for the music mogul ahead of his sentencing.

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Sean "Diddy" Combs denied bail after split verdict

Liverpool soccer player Diogo Jota has died aged 28, just weeks after marrying his childhood sweetheart. The footballer passed away in a car crash in northern Spain.

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Liverpool soccer player dies in car crash 10 days after wedding

The Pentagon said that U.S. strikes 10 days ago had degraded Iran's nuclear program by up to two years, suggesting the U.S. military operation likely achieved its goals despite a far more cautious initial assessment that leaked to the public.

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Iran nuclear program degraded by up to two years: Pentagon

Days before his 90th birthday, the Dalai Lama announced the Gaden Phodrang Trust, a non-profit he founded, will have the sole authority to recognize his future reincarnation, but China insists it will choose the successor of the Tibetan spiritual leader.

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China rejects Dalai Lama’s succession plan

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Trump’s Big Beautiful Bill nears approval

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Diddy denied bail, avoids life in prison

President Trump says Israel has agreed to a 60-day ceasefire in Gaza, but it remains unclear if Hamas will accept the terms. CBS News senior foreign correspondent Debora Patta has more.

Trump says Israel has agreed to Gaza ceasefire conditions

Bryan Kohberger changed his plea to guilty Wednesday for the 2022 murders of four University of Idaho students. CBS News national correspondent Carter Evans has more on the case.

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New details revealed as Kohberger pleads guilty for 2022 Idaho murders

The Wisconsin Supreme Court struck down a state abortion law that was adopted in 1849 in a 4-3 landmark decision. CBS News' Shanelle Kaul reports.

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Wisconsin Supreme Court strikes down 176-year-old state abortion ban

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Macron held 'substantial' phone call with Putin

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Protesters gather around ‘Alligator Alcatraz’ as President Trump visits

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The U.S. Senate passed the Republicans' reconciliation bill on Tuesday (July 1) after more than 24 hours of marathon voting on amendments. Vice President JD Vance cast the tie-breaking vote.

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Trump signs executive order lifting U.S. sanctions on Syria

Former criminology graduate student Bryan Kohberger has agreed to plead guilty to killing four Idaho college students in 2022, a move that would spare him the death penalty under a deal with prosecutors, ABC News reported on Monday (June 30).

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Suspect in murders of four Idaho college students to plead guilty

Thailand's Constitutional Court on Tuesday suspended Prime Minister Paetongtarn Shinawatra from duty pending a case seeking her dismissal, adding to mounting pressure on a government fighting for survival on multiple fronts.

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Thai court suspends PM from duty pending case seeking her dismissal

Israeli strikes killed at least 60 people across Gaza on June 30 in some of the heaviest attacks in weeks as Israeli officials were due in Washington for a new ceasefire push by U.S. President Donald Trump.